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The Secret to Sales: Stop Selling (BMM EP019)

Sep 12, 2024

 

"Listening is your secret weapon. Tune in, observe, and then deliver what they didn’t even realize they needed."

  

Ever found yourself wanting to poke your eyeballs out just to dodge another sales pitch? Well, you’re in luck because today, I’m spilling the tea on a juicy secret that’s going to flip your sales game upside down—in the best way possible!

Imagine this: What if the secret to crushing your sales goals is to stop selling altogether? Yes, you heard that right. And yes, I know it sounds nuts. 

Here’s the thing: The old sales tactics everyone and their grandma know about? They have become slimy and predictable. Yep. I know you’ve been there: You land on a page and the endless scrolling and the “sales-y” language literally scream, "BUY NOW!"  Trust me, it doesn’t feel good—neither for you nor your potential clients. 

Let’s spice things up with some creative marketing mojo! Here are my top five tips that’ll keep you feeling fabulous and your clients flocking to you faster than you can say "margarita."

  1. Get Clear

Honey, clarity is queen. Be crystal clear about what you offer, who it's for, and why it's fabulous. Your audience should understand in a heartbeat how you can change their lives (or at least their day). Waffling around about what you do helps no one. Be sharp, be clear, and watch the magic happen.

  1. Listen Up!

Can we talk about listening for a sec? What are your ideal clients really saying? Not just with their words but with their actions. Are they looking for clarity, energy, or something entirely different? Shhh! Listening is your secret weapon. Tune in, observe, and then deliver what they didn’t even realize they needed.

  1. Be 100% You

Ladies, drop the act and be yourself. I used to hide my own quirks, thinking professional meant boring. Not anymore! Whether you say “y’all” or drop a little harmless “shiznit” (guilty as charged đź™‹đźŹĽ‍♀️), authenticity attracts. Believe it or not, people bond with the real you, not some polished version of “perfection.”

  1. Embrace Your Gifts

Ever feel like an imposter? Well, stop it! You’ve got gifts, talents, and a big, beautiful brain. If you don’t embrace and flaunt everything that makes you amazing, how will anyone else see it? When you fully accept your skills, confidence shines through and clients will flock to work with you.

  1. Put Yourself in Their Shoes

Think about it: If you were your own client, would you buy from you? Dive deep and be brutally honest with yourself. Put yourself in their shoes. Create offerings and content that you would be irresistibly drawn to if you were on the other side. Like, would you really scroll through eight pages of fluff? Nah. Get to the point, and make it compelling.

So there you have it! Sales don’t have to feel sales-y. By getting clear, listening, embracing your fabulousness, and putting yourself in your client’s shoes, you'll make authentic connections that naturally lead to sales.

Want more juicy tidbits? Join my Facebook group. If you're ready to level up and takin' no prisoners, I’d love to see you there.

  

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ABOUT SUZANNE PROKSA, SHRM-SCP, SPHR, HHP

I'm Suzanne Proksa. A SHRM-SCP and SPHR certified Human Resources and Business Strategist, IAWP Certified Wellness Coach, AADP certified Holistic Health Practitioner, fierce supporter of women, and autoimmune educator + advocate. My focus is supporting, coaching, and creating programs for women, people-focused organizations, and online businesses so they can positively impact their own lives and those of others.

In my time as an online strategist, I've helped thousands of women gain confidence, establish clarity in their businesses, get visible and drive audience growth, create simple strategies and automation to grow their businesses, crush their tech challenges, and start making sales. During my time in HR, I have launched and led multiple initiatives to enrich and improve company culture and the employee experience. I've had my hands in business nearly my entire life starting when I was a kid selling my creations in my neighborhood. My business Bliss Candles was a Featured Seller on Etsy, featured in the book “How to Make Money on Etsy,” and a community favorite - and also a trailblazer in online marketing for small business.

My work has been published and featured in the Huffington Post, Medium, Thrive Global, the Amazing Women of Influence Summit, and on my beloved podcasts.

I've been honored with nominations for the MISHRM Human Resources Lifetime Achievement Award, the HR Unite! Inspire Award, and the HR Unite! TA Trailblazer Award.

When I'm not loving on my business or being the best HR leader I can be -- I'm lifting up people however I can, strength training, studying all things women's health, geeking out over technology, attending networking events, and working/living in the beautiful oasis I've built at home.

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