How to Let Go of Guilt and Finally Start Your Side Hustle with Stacy Ogden (BMM EP044)
Dec 30, 2023
"When you're thriving, your energy cascades into all areas of life. So give yourself permission to prioritize your dreams and passions. It's not selfish; it's necessary."
I'm thrilled to connect with you once again through our little slice of inbox heaven. If you've been noodling on the idea of a side hustle but are tangled up in guilt and uncertainty, you're in for a treat. Our latest podcast episode features an amazing chat with Stacy Ogden, who has navigated her own winding road from teaching full-time to mastering the side hustle game like a pro.
Here are some golden nuggets from our conversation with Stacy that I just HAD to share with you. Trust me, if you're on the fence about starting or continuing your side hustle journey, these takeaways might just nudge you in the right direction.
- Permission to Prioritize Yourself
Ladies, let's get real. We're often wearing a zillion hats—mom, teacher, businesswoman, you name it. And somewhere in there, guilt sneaks in, whispering that if we spend time on our side hustle, we're taking it away from our family or primary job. Stacy makes a brilliant point: enriching your own life will ultimately enrich those around you. When you're thriving, your energy cascades into all areas of life. So give yourself permission to prioritize your dreams and passions. It's not selfish; it's necessary.
- Combatting the 'I'm Just A...' Mindset
Ever caught yourself saying, "I'm just a teacher?" or "I'm just a mom?" Let's flip that script. Stacy and I talked about how every role we play equips us with a treasure trove of skills and strengths. Teachers, moms, accountants—you name it—you're multi-tasking maestros! Recognize that the skills you already possess can be the foundation of an amazing side hustle. So go ahead, flaunt those skills, and use them to build your dream venture.
- Why Did You Start in the First Place?
Stacy swears by Simon Sinek's principle—Start with Why. It doesn't matter if your 'why' is extra income, a passion project, or offering value to others. What's crucial is that you hold onto that why. It will steer you through the foggy days and keep you on the path when the going gets tough. And who knows, your why might even inspire those around you. Imagine your kids imitating you, recording their own mini-podcasts, just like Stacy's daughter does. How adorable is that?
- Making the Best Use of Your Time
We often feel like time is scarce, especially with all the hats we wear. Stacy's solution? Purposefully allocate your time. Whether it’s a 30-minute gap you have while waiting at your kid’s karate class or a quiet Sunday afternoon, ask yourself: "What is the best use of my time right now?" This small mental shift can make a colossal difference. Use those pockets of time to move the needle in your side hustle. Trust me, it adds up and keeps you from getting stuck in the weeds.
- Take Action, Even If It’s Small
Dreaming is fun, but action is where the magic happens. Whether it’s joining a Facebook group like Side Hustle Teachers or jotting down thoughts in a notebook, take that first step today. Action begets momentum. Baby steps are still steps forward. And hey, if you’re already in the hustle, pause to assess if you’re using your time effectively. Sometimes we need a little course correction to keep forging ahead.
There you have it. Some heartfelt advice wrapped in actionable steps, just for you. Side hustles can be messy and challenging, but they can also be incredibly rewarding and joyful.
You've got this, and I'm here cheering you on every step of the way.
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ABOUT SUZANNE PROKSA, SHRM-SCP, SPHR, HHP
I'm Suzanne Proksa. A SHRM-SCP and SPHR certified Human Resources and Business Strategist, IAWP Certified Wellness Coach, AADP certified Holistic Health Practitioner, fierce supporter of women, and autoimmune educator + advocate. My focus is supporting, coaching, and creating programs for women, people-focused organizations, and online businesses so they can positively impact their own lives and those of others.
In my time as an online strategist, I've helped thousands of women gain confidence, establish clarity in their businesses, get visible and drive audience growth, create simple strategies and automation to grow their businesses, crush their tech challenges, and start making sales. During my time in HR, I have launched and led multiple initiatives to enrich and improve company culture and the employee experience. I've had my hands in business nearly my entire life starting when I was a kid selling my creations in my neighborhood. My business Bliss Candles was a Featured Seller on Etsy, featured in the book “How to Make Money on Etsy,” and a community favorite - and also a trailblazer in online marketing for small business.
My work has been published and featured in the Huffington Post, Medium, Thrive Global, the Amazing Women of Influence Summit, and on my beloved podcasts.
I've been honored with nominations for the MISHRM Human Resources Lifetime Achievement Award, the HR Unite! Inspire Award, and the HR Unite! TA Trailblazer Award.
When I'm not loving on my business or being the best HR leader I can be -- I'm lifting up people however I can, strength training, studying all things women's health, geeking out over technology, attending networking events, and working/living in the beautiful oasis I've built at home.
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